Sunday Scaries - Why Sunday Anxiety Is Not Normal
Have you ever noticed how your dreamy Sunday morning coffee ritual gradually transforms into a knot in your stomach by late afternoon? Sunday anxiety, often referred to as "Sunday Scaries," is a form of anticipatory anxiety triggered by the impending start of the work week.
If that sounds like you, then you're not alone. Most people want to leave their jobs. In fact, nearly 70% of the Irish workforce plans to change jobs in 2025. This trend is driven by salary stagnation, limited career growth, and dissatisfaction with return-to-office policies. That's a lot of Sunday Sillies.
That heavy feeling settling in your chest as Sunday afternoon fades… It's trying to tell you something important. It might be time to listen.
Have you ever noticed how your dreamy Sunday morning coffee ritual gradually transforms into a knot in your stomach by late afternoon? Sunday anxiety, often referred to as "Sunday Scaries," is a form of anticipatory anxiety triggered by the impending start of the work week.
If that sounds like you, then you're not alone. Most people want to leave their jobs. In fact, nearly 70% of the Irish workforce plans to change jobs in 2025. This trend is driven by salary stagnation, limited career growth, and dissatisfaction with return-to-office policies. That's a lot of Sunday Sillies!
The Sunday to Monday Syndrome
Sunday anxiety doesn't happen in isolation. If you dread Sundays, you probably count down to Fridays with religious dedication, trudging through Mondays with a grimace, celebrating "hump day" Wednesday, and finally arriving at Friday with visions of weekend glory.
We've normalised this cycle because "everyone seems to get it." Social media amplifies this normalisation with #SundayScaries hashtags and memes about dreading Mondays. But just because something is common doesn't mean it's healthy or inevitable. When millions of people share their Sunday anxiety online, it creates the illusion that this is simply part of modern life that we must accept. But the numbers simply doesn't add up. Think about it, if you're wishing away your weekdays and spending half of Sunday marinating in dread, you're essentially writing off 6.5 days each week as "just getting through." The average life expectancy in Ireland is 83 years. That's 4,331 precious weeks of your life. If you're only truly living for Saturdays and half of Sundays, you're getting a return of just 1.5 days for every 7. It's like investing €100 and only getting €21 back.
Your Anxiety Is Speaking, Are You Listening?
That Sunday feeling isn't something to accept or ignore. It's your soul waving a big red flag, signalling that something fundamental needs your attention. If, like most, work is the source of your Sunday dread, it's time to examine your professional choices more closely. While most of us must work to cover life's essentials, we often have more choices about who we work for than we realise.
The Spillover Effect Is Real
The title of my master's dissertation was " The Spillover Effect: Investigating the factors influencing the Interplay between Gender-based Work-Related Stress and Its Impact on Personal Life and Wellbeing. An In-depth Exploration in Small Businesses." I carried out fresh research to test the current literature, and the results were similar. If you're unhappy at work, that unhappiness follows you home. It's called the spillover effect. You can't simply clock out at 6pm Friday and leave your work dissatisfaction behind, it hitches a ride into your personal life.
Breaking Free, Your Action Plan
If you're caught in the Sunday anxiety cycle, there are practical steps to reclaim your life.
Get specific. Is it the work, a colleague, management, pay, work-life balance, or the lack of growth opportunities?
Be realistic. Can you fix it? Is it within your control? If the issue is outside of you, remember you have no control over others' behaviours. Many workplace issues can be addressed through open communication. Be honest with yourself and be willing to make the hard decisions.
Invest in your development. This is key. Maybe where you are or what you've achieved professionally no longer serves you. 70% of the Irish workforce plans to change jobs in 2025. New skills can transform your current role or prepare you for a better one.
Connect with others in your field to discover different workplace cultures and opportunities.
Prioritise mental health. Practise meditation, walk in nature, or look to other support systems. Also, Consider reducing or avoiding social media on Sundays to minimise exposure to potentially mood-dampening content. Comparing your life to others' seemingly perfect Sunday experiences can exacerbate Sunday blues.
The Most Precious Resource
Above all, remember this, the meter of your life is running. Time is finite, and our most valuable resource so spend it wisely. Don't let Sunday anxiety steal another weekend. Your future self will thank you for taking action today.
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Navigating the Digital Health Revolution in 2025. Balancing Excitement and Anxiety
The constant pressure to optimise every aspect of our health, tracking sleep cycles, monitoring heart rate variability, logging nutritional intake, and measuring mindfulness minutes can become a form of performative wellness that disconnects us from genuine health's intuitive, organic nature. What starts as a journey of self-care can inadvertently become another source of mental load, potentially exacerbating stress and undermining the very wellness goals we're trying to achieve.
The constant pressure to optimise every aspect of our health, tracking sleep cycles, monitoring heart rate variability, logging nutritional intake, and measuring mindfulness minutes can become a form of performative wellness that disconnects us from genuine health's intuitive, organic nature. What starts as a journey of self-care can inadvertently become another source of mental load, potentially exacerbating stress and undermining the very wellness goals we're trying to achieve.
And just like that, here we all are; it's 2025! I feel like it mostly crept up on people with little of the usual rhetoric surrounding the New Year, but nonetheless, here we all are. I secretly love January. I find the transition beautifully refreshing, like taking a deep breath after weeks of indulgence and spontaneity. For me, January isn't about dramatic resolutions but a soft, subtle reset that feels both comfortingly familiar and sustainable. It's traditionally the time for change. While 80% of New Year's resolutions fail by February, January remains the month when people are most motivated to create change, and tech has your back.
The global digital health market size was calculated at €325.52 billion in 2024 and is expected to be worth €1,048.04 billion by 2034 as a result of increasing demand for mobile health apps and growing penetration of AI, IoT, and big data (Towards Healthcare, 2023). The health and wellness field is evolving as more people recognise that lasting health combines biological, psychological and social health pillars. New technologies are helping us better understand how these aspects of health connect and work together, opening up exciting possibilities for improving our overall wellbeing. From AI coaching to biohacking for longevity, wellness's future is personalised, integrative, and designed to keep us plugged in! These exciting advances can absolutely enhance our overall health, from optimising our mental clarity through sense hacking to nurturing our spiritual growth with nature-based therapies. By embracing these advancements and adopting a holistic approach to wellness, we can potentially unlock new levels of vitality and balance for years to come.
However, in the pursuit of optimal wellness, it's paradoxically easy to become trapped in what I call "wellness anxiety", a state where the tools designed to improve our mental wellness, emotional wellness, physical wellness, and spiritual wellness can become sources of significant stress. I recently read a Reddit post where users advised the poster to take off her Whoop as it was causing real stress, and her mental health was starting to suffer, and it's easy to see how this could happen. The endless stream of health apps, biohacking technologies, fitness trackers, meditation platforms, and personalised nutrition plans can quickly transform from supportive resources into overwhelming obligations. Add to that the latest expert screaming at us on a podcast, telling us what we're doing is wrong, and that we're doomed unless we follow these simple steps. Each notification, chime, and performance report can trigger feelings of not being good enough, creating a cycle where trying to better ourselves becomes harsh self-judgment. This constant stream of digital information can leave us mentally exhausted and more anxious, and ultimately, we can end up feeling worse rather than better. The constant pressure to optimise every aspect of our health, tracking sleep cycles, monitoring heart rate variability, logging nutritional intake, and measuring mindfulness minutes can become a form of performative wellness that disconnects us from genuine health's intuitive, organic nature. What starts as a journey of self-care can inadvertently become another source of mental load, potentially exacerbating stress and undermining the very wellness goals we're trying to achieve.
As someone passionate about wellness innovation, I'll be the first to admit that I'm perpetually curious about emerging health technologies and products. I am naturally drawn to seeking out the latest biohacking tools and wellness innovations. This isn't about obsessive optimisation but genuine fascination. I love understanding how new technologies might support my own holistic health journey. But my enthusiasm comes from a place of curiosity rather than a need to micromanage every aspect of my wellness. Whether exploring your biological age, checking out the newest wearables, or listening to a podcast on the advances in functional medicine, I'm naturally drawn to the flame. However, over time, I have learned to approach these innovations with an open mind, understanding that while they're seductive, the role of tech is supplementary, second to the fundamental principles of lasting and meaningful health.
I welcome new innovations, but it's very much balanced by the importance of remembering that these offerings, while helpful, are simply tools to support our endeavours. While personalised AI coaching, biohacking, and cutting-edge therapies promise to optimise our health, they should never overshadow or replace the fundamental pillars of health. The truth remains that the most impactful changes often come from focusing on the basics. And it's not as exciting or exciting as new tech - It's simply prioritising quality sleep, staying well-hydrated, maintaining a balanced diet, engaging in regular movement, and nurturing social connections that form the bedrock of overall wellbeing wellbeing. These simple but powerful practices support our body's natural ability to heal and thrive. So, if you decide to explore the evolving tech landscape, remember to focus on the essentials first. By building a strong foundation with the basic principles, you'll be reassured that you're better equipped to integrate more advanced wellness strategies into your life, creating a balanced and sustainable health approach that stands the test of time.
I'm, like many, forever curious about the latest offerings. I'm naturally drawn to dive deep into the newest biohacking tools and cutting-edge wellness innovations. However, I am keenly aware that curiosity isn't about obsessive optimisation but genuine fascination. Health is my 'thing', my hobby. I love discovering new tech and understanding how they can support our health journeys. My enthusiasm comes from a place of curiosity rather than a need to micromanage every aspect of my wellness. Whether it's exploring predictive healthcare data, genetic testing or reading about advances in functional medicine, I'm always excited to learn. However, I've learned to approach these innovations with a critical yet open mind, understanding that while they're fascinating, they're supplementary to the fundamental principles of good health.
Always ask yourself - How am I sleeping, and what's my energy level like?, Am I hydrated? Am I feeling connected or isolated? and "What's bringing me joy and causing me stress?". These questions help us regularly check in with our mental state and life satisfaction, helping us make better choices for our overall well-being.